August 22, 2005
Another day is almost in the books
Some day, I intend to look back at the last several days and laugh. Probably not for a really long time, mind you, but one day. Stands to reason, right? I mean, it kind of has to be that way. If not, I will be very sorry indeed.
Anyway, a bright spot on the horizon. I am off to have dinner with Simon, that exceptionally smart, erudite and all around good guy from Hong Kong. We're off for Austrian food way downtown. I'm very much looking forward to this and have been for weeks. And right now, at least, it looks as if I will not have to cancel on him, which is nice since he came all this way. Anyway, I'm pretty excited.
Finally, in lieu of any other post today, I will leave you with the words of the Girl Child from this weekend informing her mother and me about her plans for the future:
GC: When I grow up, I want to be a ballerina and a butterfly. The only problem is that I don't know how to make a cocoon.
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Well GC, if that is your biggest worry ever, you are gold!!
RP, you have a wonderful time. You hear?
Posted by: Wicked H at August 22, 2005 05:26 PM (BQhBn)
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GC's quotes could...and should!...fill a book.
Posted by: nic at August 22, 2005 09:08 PM (l+W8Z)
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This too shall pass. Because, well, that's just what these things do.
Hang in there, RP. Hope you have a grand time tonight.
Posted by: Jennifer at August 22, 2005 09:14 PM (1X5Jq)
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Yeesh! Finally! First your blog won't come up, then your comments screen blasts some huge "404 FORBIDDEN" warning when I try to leave a comment.
Scary! But glad I got through at last.
{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}
Sorry you have been going through so much. I hope last night with Simon was a blast and of COURSE the GC/BC stories are special. Always, always, always. :-)
Hope things are smoother now. And great good luck with the job hunt.
Posted by: Amber at August 23, 2005 06:08 PM (zQE5D)
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RP, hope dinner was fun! Hope Simon's enjoying the big Apple!
6-8 applications? Things are that serious? I have to say, before my ex-sis-N-law left her law firm, she was afraid she might take longer to get to her ultimate goal. After much prodding from friends and family, she realized she might never get to where she wanted if she continued being placed in impossible work situations. Now that she's out on her own, and becoming innovative with her career, she's much happier. Plus I get to see her twice a year for almost a month.
Change is scary at first, especially after getting a new home, but you are brilliant and have lots of options, don't let fear block your vision.
Posted by: Michele at August 25, 2005 12:03 AM (ht2RK)
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Hoping all is well and that you're keeping your chin up (or your head down).
Posted by: Mandarin at August 25, 2005 10:17 PM (+eH+G)
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I think a ballerina butterfly could make a cocoon out of tutus, pink gauze and satin ribbons. Or maybe just a favorite blanket draped over a couple of chairs.
Posted by: Amy at August 26, 2005 01:40 PM (nUCsP)
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Thinkin' 'bout you -- and hope you're laughing.
xoxo
Posted by: Margi at August 26, 2005 01:55 PM (nwEQH)
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August 20, 2005
Bad Day update
Some friends have checked back in to see if I updated from the Bay Day post of Thursday. I would have, but I didn't feel like whining. So, instead, I opted not to post. Let me just note that Friday was actually worse than Thursday. I was actually despondent, a word I do not use lightly. Indeed, I actually, in the little cracks of time I could find, managed to get out 6-8 job applications to places all over the country -- Phoenix; San Diego; and at least one or two other places I can no longer recall. May have been an act of desperation, beats me. I am not going to examine it too deeply or too closely. Instead, I'm just going to roll with the punches and see what happens.
I think I'll know better by Monday end of day or Tuesday morning how its gonna shake out. Right now, I guess it could go either way.
Anyway, thanks for caring enough to check in and request an update.
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There's a lot of prestigious law firms in San Fran!!!!
Posted by: Mark at August 20, 2005 09:36 PM (Y5TQf)
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Hey RP, whether despondent or desperate or some other word that starts with "d" (devilishly demented, deucedly determined, devastatingly debonaire, downright dashing), know that we're thinking of you! All the best for the coming week--hope that tomorrow you will be able to rejuvenate yourself with your rad family.
Posted by: Mandarin at August 20, 2005 11:50 PM (+eH+G)
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There's actually a lot to be said for just keeping your head down and making it through a day or two on occasion.
Hang in there.
Posted by: Christina at August 21, 2005 09:02 AM (zJsUT)
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You can whine. I do it regularly and with great skill, I might add.
To quote Wil Wheaton.. "There's a difference between saying-'I'm going to go take a dump in the woods' and 'Come with me while I take a dump in the woods'".
Okay.. Bad analogy, but you get the point, I'm sure.
Posted by: Rob at August 21, 2005 10:46 PM (Gkhif)
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Wow...it must have been really bad if you sent out resumes to other cities after just having purchased and moved into a new house. Yikes!
For the record, Columbus, Ohio is very nice in that it has some big city feel contained in a very manageably small city. Plus, you could get a house about 3 times the size of the one you just bought. ;-)
Posted by: Linda at August 22, 2005 10:41 AM (4gch1)
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August 18, 2005
Bad day
Expect no posts today.
Having one of those bad days with respect to a case I have an emergency in wherein one alternates between vertigoes feelings of despair, complete with desire to vomit and feelings that legal research reveals a glimmer of hope through which the needle can be threaded, the rocks and shoals successfully navigated, and the ship brought home safely without foundering on issues better left to the imagination.
I think I want a new career. Just saying.
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:-(
Hmmm. Sounds like a good night to put that Alcohol Knowledge to the real test. Just sayin'.
Posted by: Jennifer at August 18, 2005 01:31 PM (jl9h0)
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Come South, friend. We'll open a thong store in Panama City. Can the wife get us some hottie Norwegian women to model? Including herself, of course.
Posted by: Howard at August 18, 2005 03:19 PM (u2JaN)
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Hmmmm...between this post and the one about shopping online for a new life, you sound like you're in a similar place to mine...except that there's more bank involved with the change of jobs in your case. :-P
Good luck on the research today, and I hope the desire to vomit subsides. Wish me well as I debate whether to reenter the other pool of sharks, the real estate field.
Posted by: Allison at August 18, 2005 04:49 PM (ddjrP)
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I'm so sorry, love.
I have every confidence that you'll come through this with flying colors. Smelling like a rose. And with a victorious smile.
:: grin ::
Posted by: Margi at August 18, 2005 07:27 PM (nwEQH)
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Non carborundum illegitimi, RP!
Posted by: GrammarQueen at August 19, 2005 08:32 AM (XzHwx)
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I'm so sorry that you are having a rough time with this. I'm sure with your positive attitude you'll find a way to make it work.
Take care and hopefully the upcoming weekend with your family will restore your sense of well-being.
hugs,
dee
Posted by: dee at August 19, 2005 11:05 AM (sZnML)
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Since you haven't posted I'm guessing Bacardi came to the rescue.
Posted by: Michele at August 20, 2005 02:57 PM (ht2RK)
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Please check in soon, RP. Now that I'm back in the Blog Saddle, I'm a Blog-Nazi when it comes to people not giving us updates.
Heh...yes, I know. Pot, kettle, etc. ;-)
Posted by: Amber at August 20, 2005 04:20 PM (zQE5D)
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August 04, 2005
My desk
My desk is a lovely shade of reddish/brownish wood. I had forgotten it was so lovely. It only took just under five hours today to clean it up enough for me to see it again. Also, while on the subject of good news, I do not appear to to have buried anything of a time critical nature such that I have defaulted on something, let a statute of limitations run, missed an important deadline, or otherwise committed malpractice per se. That's always the really big risk with having a messy, messy desk.
Yup, looking mighty shiny and clean in here today. I can practically see my reflection in the surface of the desk.
What the hell. Beats working!
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:-)
A clean desk is the sign of an organized mind, I always say. Of course, if you're like me, you might tend to carry that tenet a tad far...
Posted by: Jennifer at August 04, 2005 05:40 PM (ydXhk)
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Now that yours is done, are you free to do mine?
Posted by: Stephen Macklin at August 04, 2005 07:28 PM (ics4u)
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Mine is this lovely veneer, oak-ish in nature.
Or, so I've heard. I actually saw it briefly when I moved in to my office, but we've not seen much of each other since.
Posted by: Rob at August 05, 2005 08:38 AM (i3q83)
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I so totally cleaned my desk yesterday evening it worried my secretary when she came in this morning. I think she thought I was cleaning out and moving on, as opposed to just cleaning up.
Posted by: lawmom at August 05, 2005 11:49 AM (XhYQ0)
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"Beats working!"
-Amen, RP. Amen.
Posted by: Helen at August 05, 2005 01:45 PM (ATx6T)
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The close of an era in NY
Thanks to some guy in Missouri, vicarious liability is dead in NY. Vicarious liability ("VL") is a really interesting concept. It has to do with ownership of a conveyance -- a motor vehicle now but a carriage before. VL means that liability for the damage caused by the motor vehicle is imputed to the owner of the vehicle and not merely the operator. This meant that car companies were on the hook if a leased car got into an accident. NY was one of the only states with this law.
VL dated back quite some time and came into being when horse and carriage travel was popular. It made a lot of sense. Horses and carriages were very expensive things but they were generally driven not by the owners but by a poor and poorly compensated carriage driver. If the driver hurt someone, there was no recourse. So the NY State Legislature provided recourse to the owner of the horse and carriage, generally a person of substance.
The concept was simply carried forward to motor vehicles later.
At the time, it seems to me that VL was not particularly revolutionary. I recall from my days studying Roman Law (literally, the laws and legal system of Rome and the Roman Empire) that it provided for VL. If you threw something out of a rented apartment and hurt someone, the injured person had recourse against the owner of the apartment building, whether or not the owner had anything to do with throwing the object out the window. VL, no?
However, VL in NY has made leasing cars very, very expensive and caused all sorts of havoc in terms of insurance and in terms of indemnification of the car companies by the lessee. I know because I got involved in one of the cases once. Went all the way to the Appellate Division where we lost.
Representative Sam Graves, put an unexpected end to the issue.
The provision is in the federal transportation bill under "Title X: Miscellaneous Provisions." It states that people who rent or lease motor vehicles to others "shall not be held liable under the law of any state" for any harm their vehicles cause, as long as they are not guilty of "negligence or criminal wrongdoing."
Representative Graves's amendment passed the House in March by a vote of 218 to 201, mostly along party lines, and it stayed in the bill through the conference committee process. When the full bill went to a vote, it passed overwhelmingly, because it included billions of dollars of spending on transportation projects that lawmakers in both parties wanted for their districts.
If the president signs the bill, officials said, the federal law will take precedence, and New York's vicarious liability law will no longer apply.
No matter what you think of VL, it was the law of NY and has been hotly debated, again and again in the Legislature. For some schmuck from Missouri to come in and change NY law is, to me, an abuse of the federal system. I may not have liked the law, but I resent like hell this hick coming in and usurping the powers granted to the dysfunctional NY State Legislature by the equally dysfunctional citizens of the State of NY.
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I'll see your dysfunctional State Legislature and raise you a dysfunctional State Governor. It's not that I don't like Mr Barbour, it's just that I don't care for him very much.
Posted by: Howard at August 04, 2005 10:57 AM (u2JaN)
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Oooh. Shit.
This will explain why the insurance defense side of the 'house' was quiet today and the med mal side was still percolating right along.
Mourning.
[Remember: I can and will attempt to inject humor anywhere. I never said it wouldn't be tacky.]
Posted by: Margi at August 05, 2005 03:56 AM (nwEQH)
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Sometimes the Feds need to step in and clean up messes left by the individual states. The NYSL should hgave thrown VL out a long time ago. Assinine law.
Posted by: Mark at August 05, 2005 07:54 AM (3DHbS)
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The major problem here is that we keep hiring people who's entire job function is to create more laws. I want a constitutional amendment that requires removing a law whenever a new one is created.
Or maybe remove two. We've got quite a backlog.
Posted by: Jim at August 15, 2005 09:33 PM (oqu5j)
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