September 30, 2004
The Open Road Beckons. . .
Hi, all,
Just a quick wave to let you know that I am still alive. Just facing some deadlines here at work. Left the house to catch that horrid 5:56 train again and I left in full night. The moon was out, sort of hidden by the clouds but illuminating them completely. It was beautiful but I just can't keep doing this. I am over committed at work (where I can't keep up with the new business), at home (where I'd rather be taking care of my children), or with all of the non profit stuff (where I have to learn to start saying, no, when asked to do more stuff).
I am definitely having one of those days in which I wonder, fleetingly, how far I can get with my car before American Express wises up to the fact that I've done a runner and cancels my charge card. Mexico? Through Central America? Maybe Argentina? If I stay away from places where the hotels, such as they are, can check with American Express, maybe further? If my next dispatch is bylined, "From the Road", you'll know what happened.
All suggestions as to destinations are welcome.
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i think out west
i have always wanted to go...but have never been.
have fun.
;-)
Posted by: standing naked at September 30, 2004 08:23 AM (IAJcf)
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You've been quiet and I was wondering where you were my blog brother

And, for what it's worth, you should know-you've got a good 45 days worth of Amex loving before they cut you off. Not that I've checked or anything, while entertaining thoughts of escaping to Africa...
Posted by: Helen at September 30, 2004 11:26 AM (2mqzj)
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I had a great week in Wyoming. Flew into Salt Lake and took a nice drive north into Idaho and then followed the Snake River east into Wyoming and up into the Grand Tetons. Stayed in a lodge near Jackson Lake with no tv, no radio, no c*ll phone or blackberry reception.
I would get up before dawn, drive up to a mountain top and watch the son come up over the mountains. Hiked within spitting distance of moose, elk, bison, and buffalo. Went rafting.
Your weather window may have passed - but I gotta say - it was very, very, nice.
Your girl child would love it.
By the way . . . your blog prohibited this post until I deleted the correct spelling of a non land line phone.
Posted by: ivan at September 30, 2004 09:40 PM (xy2ZU)
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September 21, 2004
Not feeling the love, today
I appeared for a conference and for argument to oppose a motion this morning in the Federal District Court for the Southern District of New York. I prepared most of the day yesterday for it and took the 5:56 train this morning so that I would arrive at the office with plenty of time to get my documents organized and be calm and happy. It was pretty damn dark when I left the house this morning with not even a hint of the sunrise. Winter's coming, no doubt about it.
This was a motion I expected to lose, by the way. It was to vacate a default judgment where the defendant had not filed an answer to a complaint and been out of touch for something like 9 months. Nonetheless, this is the kind of situation that a court will bend over to alleviate because the courts have a bias in favor of deciding a case on the merits, rather than on default.
And I did lose. But not before getting a rather nice compliment from the Judge who told me that my arguments were "forceful and skillful" and that I had been a "real gentleman". He also, even though I had lost, awarded my client $1,000 in costs in opposing the motion. Do you know how rare that is? To be awarded costs when you lose the motion? That's the first time for me. So the day wasn't a total loss. I walked out of the courtroom with the knowledge that I have a lot of credibility with the Judge and that is a fabulous thing for my clients. Credibility with the court is everything. If you have it, a judge will believe your representations and give you the benefit of the doubt. If you don't have it, you are in for a whole world of trouble.
So now, I'm pretty beat. Feeling a little drained. I have a meeting in 30 minutes and then a meeting after work. I'm just waiting for the Advil to kick in and I ought to be good to go.
I saw that Mr. Green has hung it up, or at least is taking a break. Blogger fatigue? I don't know. I think that some of this is cyclical for people. I feel a little burned out today but I feel that way about everything.
Last thing and this amused me. I was on the subway going down to Court and this young man looked at me up and down and asked me, "Lawyer?" I admitted that I was and we then had a very pleasant conversation.
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Congrats on the $1000, but more importantly, the respect of the Court.
Have a relaxing night.
Posted by: Peter M. at September 21, 2004 05:59 PM (bnd0P)
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congratulations on your....loss??
aahhh - you know what i mean.
;-)
Posted by: standing naked at September 21, 2004 09:14 PM (IAJcf)
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Yep, seems the Judge saw you as an honest broker and threw a bone to yer client just for having shown character and a good judicial temperment somehow. Would've been nice to witness.
All rise for Justice Pensuer!
Posted by: Tuning Spork at September 21, 2004 09:26 PM (nIBrv)
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Thanks, y'all. It was actually a lot of fun even if I did lose. Oral argument is, while draining, really a good time.
Posted by: RP at September 22, 2004 11:16 AM (LlPKh)
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Oral arguments were the few bright spots in my 5-year litigation career. It is nerve-rattling, but a real rush, win or lose (but especially win!) I admire you for sticking with it. Transactional work doesn't usually offer similar experiences (closing a deal, while nice, isn't quite the same as arguing in open court). Congratulations on a job well done.
Posted by: JohnL at September 22, 2004 02:34 PM (Hs4rn)
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Ah yes.... Well done on earning the esteem of the Southern District. Now... if you managed to stop Judge Braun over in NY Sup from screaming at people - I'd consider you Master of the Universe!
Posted by: Stimulant at September 22, 2004 05:42 PM (Lu3rp)
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Congrats on impressing the Judge! Awesome!
I'm not surprise, though. :-)
Posted by: Amber at September 22, 2004 09:54 PM (zQE5D)
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September 07, 2004
My Inappropriate Phone Response of the Day
The phone just rang through and I picked it up. The voice on the other end asked, is "Mr. Smith free?" And I just could not help myself. I actually replied:
Mr. Smith is not free, but he is cheap.
Fortunately, the fellow on the other end of the line laughed. I wonder sometimes how I manage to keep this job.
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Tastefully done, it's a nice break in the workaday world.
Good for you!
Posted by: Emma at September 07, 2004 11:39 AM (MAdsZ)
Posted by: GrammarQueen at September 07, 2004 02:07 PM (gDEwS)
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Most excellent!!
Love random strangers with a sense of humor!
Posted by: Wicked H at September 07, 2004 02:54 PM (iqFar)
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Come work with us. You'd fit rigt in. Our client was bitching today that he couldn't get in his own driveway because of our work vehicles. I responded by telling him that while that was true, the entertainment value would be going way down when we were gone. Fortunately, he laughed, too. Broke the tension.
Posted by: Mark D. Firestone at September 07, 2004 10:05 PM (xWqVZ)
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LOL!!! Maybe because you make the clients laugh, and happy clients come back.
Posted by: Rachel Ann at September 08, 2004 01:33 AM (+zrBv)
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I did go to "Mr. Smith" and confess later. He thought it was funny, thank goodness.
Posted by: RP at September 08, 2004 10:09 AM (LlPKh)
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I made a customer laugh the other day. He wanted to know which distributor we had in his state and I told him it was "Cream". I could tell he was writing it down, so I added, "Cream, like the band."
He was incredulous; he laughed so hard. He said, "Amber! Can I come to where you are and give you a big hug for that? I thought you were going to say, 'Like the white stuff' or 'What you put in your coffee', but no, you bring up the band."
Then we had a 20 minute discussion on Eric Clapton, whether or not Ginger Baker was still alive, whether or not Crosby, Stills and Nash is still worth seeing at this point (they're appearing near us soon) and all kinds of musically goodness that I thrive upon. Both of us did.
I love that kind of thing. :-)
Posted by: Amber at September 08, 2004 03:00 PM (zQE5D)
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